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Welcome to the
#SLAA Online Group

of Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
on StarLink-IRC.Org IRC
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Contents:

Home
Welcome & Navigating
Announcements
Meeting Times
Connecting To Chat
Message Boards
Behavior & Problems
Guidelines
Abbrev. & Acronyms
Officers
Anonymity Issues
Service Structure
Tools of Recovery
Sponsorship Online
Readings/Literature
Books on Recovery
Our 7th Tradition
Links (Resources)
Creative Submissions
Online Group History
Bus. Meeting Minutes
StarLink-IRC Info

#SLAA Main room:
#SLAA (mIRC Texas)
#SLAA (Java Canada)

#SLAA2
(Men's, Women's,
and Business Mtgs.):

#SLAA2 (mIRC Texas)
#SLAA2 (Java Canada)

If above servers down:
#SLAA (Java US)
#SLAA2 (Java US)

 

Connecting To Chat - Summary For Everyone:

This Connecting To Chat section is divided into four major pages:

There are many ways to connect to the #SLAA Online Group chat room on IRC.  The method mostly depends on what operating system you are using (Windows, Macintosh, UNIX, MSN-TV/WebTV, etc.).  With the exception of using Java from a web browser and MSN-TV/WebTV, there are common pieces of information and commands that you will need to know.  CStar is a “bot” (robot) and is always present in the #SLAA and #SLAA2 rooms.  If you enter our chat room and the only nickname is CStar, please realize that you are alone in the room — althought you are at the right place.  Even when regular meetings are not scheduled, however, you will often find other recovery acquaintences with whom to chat.

IRC stands for Internet Relay Chat.  It is a real-time way of people being able to converse.  Just like web browsers let us “browse” static websites, IRC clients (programs) let us connect to servers and specific chat rooms.  Since IRC is textual, it allows people with all types of computers and operating systems to unite in rooms of specific topics.   Our room, called #SLAA, is a 24/7/365 room for recovery.  There are many ways to connect, but most people use the same specific method each and every time.

For those interested in the history of IRC which goes back to 1988, http://daniel.haxx.se/irchistory.html is excellent reading.  For those interested in more about StarLink-IRC, there is a link to your left.  StarLink-IRC is porn-free and advertising-free.   If you engage in chat (either in a chat room or in private messages using IRC with others) that is considered pornographic or advertising or promotes IRC servers other than StarLink-IRC, you could be subject to a ban (g-line) by StarLink-IRC operators.  For those interested in the history of our chat room, there is a link to your left called "Online History."  We have had as many as 31 concurrent members in the room (on 1/2/02 and 6/10/02), although there is no limit to room capacity.

Set-up for most clients

Most programs will prompt you for the following information during installation or set-up:

Nickname — we recommend your first name and last initial or something unique and anonymous (like “JohnQ” or “JaneS”).

Alt Nickname or Alternate Nickname — this is often very similar to nickname with a “_” in it (like “John_Q” or “Jane_S”).

The Nickname and Alt Nickname can be up to 10 characters, but we recommend 4 to 9 characters.  They can contain only letters, numbers, and the following special characters  { | } [ \ ] _ ` - ^

Identd or Ident — this can be just your first name or something unique and anonymous (keep it simple like “john”).

Real Name” or “Full Name” or “Info” — this should NOT be your real name.  Again, a first name is wise for anonymity.  Some programs suggest that you can enter your personal homepage address here — again, we suggest that you do not do this for anonymity.

Server — this is the server(s) we use.  Some programs will already have some listed or a group listed.  If so, choose “starlink-irc.org” or “starlinkirc” (not Starlink or StarlinkOrg).  If they aren’t listed or you wish to add more, the current servers are (capitalization is not important with server addresses):

  • IRC.StarLink-IRC.Org (this will connect you to a random server)
  • BROOKVILLE.PA.US.StarLink-IRC.Org
  • houston.tx.us.StarLink-IRC.Org
  • MOUNTVERNON.WA.US.StarLink-IRC.Org
  • ROCHESTER.MI.US.StarLink-IRC.Org
  • houston.tx.us.StarLink-IRC.Org
  • WILLIAMSLAKE.BC.CA.StarLink-IRC.Org (Canada)
  • YARMOUTH.NS.CA.StarLink-IRC.Org (Canada)
  • BIRMINGHAM.WM.UK.StarLink-IRC.Org (United Kingdom)

Port — some programs will ask you for a port number.  All servers may connect using ports 6663 through 6669 or 7001 (6667 is the usual default).

Logging — if the program asks about “logging,” you must make sure that you have this feature turned off.  Our room does NOT permit logging of any conversations (which means saving the text to a computer file for review later).

Using Java from web browsers

There are many clients available.  Which you choose depends on what Operating System you use.  Probably over 70% of our members use mIRC and 20% use Java from their web browser.  To the left are links with more information of importance to Windows mIRC users, Macintosh users, and MSN-TV/WebTV users.

Java (using IE-Explorer, Netscape Navigator, or other Java-enabled browsers). — This is the simplest form of chatting.  You don’t need a seperate program.  All you need is your Internet web browser to be Java-capable.   There are links to your left below the menu links to connect using Java directly with your browser— two for #SLAA and two for #SLAA2 with “Java Canada” or “Java US” after them.  Webpage chats will not work with Netscape 2.0 or 3.0, nor will they work with Internet Explorer 3.0.

Using Java, all you can do is chat to the room, chat with an individual, display actions, and change nicknames.  Things like changing colors of text or sending sounds to other users is not supported.  You can’t run scripts or customize anything about the chat interface.   Java-based chat is often very slow compared to other forms of chatting.   Since about 20% use this, especially initially, here are the steps you use in great detail:

  1. Click on one of the “Java” links on this page.  Your browser will open a new toolbar program called “StarLink-IRC Java Chat Client” (a large window with a blank background and a grey box; no scroll bars; and frankly useless).
  2. After a moment, your browser will open a new toolbar program called “JAVirc V 2.3b” which will be a smaller window having 3 fields and a <Connect> button.
  3. In Nickname, please enter a nickname that you will use each time you come to our room, such as your first name and last initial with no spaces (such as “JohnD”).  Leave the Username field alone and the email field blank and click the <Connect> button.  You may now optionally close the “StarLink-IRC Java Chat Client” program window, as it is unimportant.
  4. You will have two new toolbar program windows.  The top window is the chat room itself (which you can resize or maximize) and the bottom window is the status window (which shows your server connection and server messages — you can minimize this, but do not close this window or you will loose your connection).
  5. Very few commands are available with Java:  You may simply type in the chat room edit box at the bottom and press <enter> to send a line of text to the room.  You may type “/me action” such as “/me nods” or “/me relates completely” displays your name followed by the action in the room.  You may private message someone to speak only with them by typing “/msg johnd Hi John - do you have a minute?” to send the line “Hi John - do you have a minute?” to only the person that has the nickname johnd (uppercase and lowercase do not matter).

If your computer does not get to step 2 above, you probably have Java turned off in your browser.

  • In IE-Explorer, this is found in the Tools/Internet Options command, "Advanced" tab.  Make sure that in the expandable "Microsoft VM" menu, you have both "Java console enabled" and "java logging enabled" checked.  Click <Apply> and <OK> and reboot your computer.
  • In Netscape Navigator, this is found in the Edit/Preferences command, "Advanced" tab.  Make sure that you have both "Enable Java" and "Enable JavaScript" checked.  Click <OK> and close Navigator (a reboot is not necessary).

Once you have seen the room's benefits for a number of meetings, you might consider another IRC client from the list below instead of using Java.  They offer a lot of additional features and commands.  Our trusted servant (operator) scripts are written to work with mIRC.  Probably more than 98% of our members are using Windows (95, 98, ME, XP, 2000, or NT) and of them probably more than 75% use mIRC.

Commands in IRC

Commands in IRC begin with a forward slash “/” in the first position of the line.  Otherwise you are typing a regular message to the room.   IRC is not case sensitive, so you can use upper or lower case for commands and nicknames.  Channels (or rooms) always start with a pound sign “#” (with a technical exception of “&” which you will never see).  With the exception of very limited commands available using Java as described in step 5 above, most IRC clients use the same commands.   The list is vast, but the more common commands that you will use are:

/join #room (such as “/join #slaa”) to join a channel.
/part #room (such as “/part #slaa”) to leave a channel without closing the client (also “/leave #room”).
/quit to leave all channels and close the client.
/hop #room (such as “/hop #slaa2”) to leave the current room and join the specified room.
/msg nickname message (such as “/msg janes Hi Jane, do you have a minute?”) sends a private message to a member.
/query nickname is similar to /msg, except that it always opens a separate window on your computer for the conversation.
/me action (such as “/me nods”) displays your action to the room preceded with your name in a neat way.
/whois nickname (such as “/whois johnq”) to see more information about a member (identd, info, and ISP).
/whowas nickname is similar to /whois if the member just changed nicknames or quit.
/ctcp nickname time (such as “/ctcp johnq time”) displays the time of the other person’s computer clock.
/dcc chat nickname (such as “/dcc chat janes”) opens a separate window once the other person accepts your chat request, allowing you to chat without going through the IRC network.  This is rarely used, but can be helpful if it is important to talk to someone and they are new and do not see your regular “/msg nickname message” lines.

For a more detailed list of commands that work with most clients, please visit the Using Windows mIRC link at the top of this page.


Clients for various operating systems

Windows 95/98/ME/2000/XP/NT/etc. — mIRC is further explained in the “Using Windows mIRC” link here or at the top of this page.
The links to your left for #SLAA and #SLAA2 that have “mIRC Texas” after them should work with pIRCH and some other clients too.  They might not work from Netscape browsers.
A note to AOL'ers, please read http://www.newircusers.com/aol2.html if you have trouble connecting.
mIRC 6.03 http://www.mirc.com or http://www.mirc.co.uk ($20 after 30 days) [by far the most used Windows IRC client]
Visual IRC 2.0rc3 (freeware) http://www.hansprestige.com/virc/beta.php or http://www3.sympatico.ca/road1/v2scripts.htm
Xchat 1.8.9 http://www.xchat.org
leafChat 1.761 ($20 shareware) http://www.leafdigital.com/Software/leafChat
XiRCON 1.0 beta 4 http://www.xircon.com
Klient 1.0.20 http://www.klient.com (unsure if freeware or shareware)
dIRC 2.2.0.1 http://www.dircchat.com or http://www.dircscripts.com ($24.95 after evaluation)
WiRC 2.07c http://wircirc.cjb.net
PIRCH98 [not sure of the status of this program — their website at http://www.pirchat.com seems to be down]
Many others are listed at http://www.valinor.sorcery.net/clients/platforms-windows.html and http://www.tucows.com/circ95.html.

Windows 3.1 or 3.11 — mIRC is further explained in the “Using Windows mIRC” link here or at the top of this page.    mIRC 5.91s http://www.mirc.com or http://www.mirc.co.uk ($20 after 30 days) [be sure to select v5.91s instead of current mIRC versions for use with Windows 3.1 or 3.11]

Macintosh — Apple Macintosh computers and clients are further explained in the “Using Macintosh” link here or at the top of this page.

MSN-TV/WebTV — MSN-TV/WebTV is further explained in the “Using MSN-TV/WebTV” link here or at the top of this page.

Unix/Linus/BSD/Solaris/etc. — the following clients are beyond the scope of this website, but work successfully.
IrcII 2.8.2 (or 20020403) http://www.irchelp.org/irchelp/ircii or http://www.eterna.com.au/ircii
BitchX 1.0c19 http://www.bitchx.com
EPIC 4-1.1.1 http://www.epicsol.org
Xchat 1.9.2 http://www.xchat.org
KVIrc 2.1.1 http://www.kvirc.net
irssi 0.8.5 http://irssi.org
sirc 2.211 http://www.iagora.com/~espel/sirc/sirc.html
Zircon X11 1.18 http://catless.ncl.ac.uk/Programs/Zircon
Many others are listed at http://www.valinor.sorcery.net/clients/platforms-unix.html

 


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